Afiq Zahir
Rumah tangga yang bahagia memang menjadi impian bagi pasangan yang sudah berkahwin. Dengan itu, kehidupan suami isteri dapat dibina dengan baik. Namun, yang tak best-nya bila ada orang luar yang sengaja rosakkan kebahagiaan orang lain demi kepentingan sendiri.
Baru-baru ni, pasangan pempengaruh terkenal, Alif Teega dan isterinya, Aisyah Hijanah telah didakwa diserang penyakit hasad dengki atau ‘ain’ yang dipercayai berpunca daripada orang luar.
@aisyahhijanah #bismillahimasyaAllah “Kenapa Aisyah jarang post berdua dgn Alif?” Aisyah rasa sepanjang 6 tahun kahwin, inilah yg paling mencabar. Mentally & physically exhausted, mencabar iman & kesetiaan apatah lagi dalam kesihatan tubuh badan yg sgt terhad. Tak ada pasangan yg nak hadap perkara ini. Tak ada pasangan yg nak hadap pendatang luar masuk ke dalam keluarga. But it’s happening to us, and I have to be strong to face this. Otherwise, we’ll lose this battle. In 6 years, I have never allowed anyone to get into my heart. Because I know, this is a respect for my husband. And, no men dare to get closer to me. I really mind my gap & distance from men. For me, my husband deserves 100% of my love, heart, care & attention. I don’t seek attention from other men, it’s totally a foolish thing to do as a wife. And other women should respect the gap too. If you know that it is someone’s husband, dont you ever dare to flirt or even pretend to be mentally unstable to seek attention & care. At first, it was so difficult for me to bear everything. I didnt know how many tears dropped from my eyes, how much pain I endured. Everything was so painful for me. I lose weight to 44kg. People kept asking “Aisyah kenapa susut?” and I didnt have any answer to those. For me, I looked physically normal, but for people who saw me often, they saw me changing. Betul kata orang, hari isteri jarang salah. Aisyah mula rasa sesuatu yg tak kena. Dan, bila Aisyah tanya pada ustaz, ada yg kata nampak sesuatu pada Alif dan ada niat seseorang utk merosakkan rumah tangga. Wallahu a’lam. First, I brought him to see Ust Syafiq, if that would help. And, after we’re diagnosed, it was ‘ain hasad dengki’. Ada yg nampak macam-macam lagi, ada juga yg tak nampak apa-apa. For me, I didnt know because I couldnt see it with my naked eyes. Alhamdulillah lepas balik, dah bincang & buat apa ustaz suruh, I saw improvements in him. But, my pain continued. I lived in that misery for almost 2 weeks. And, I couldnt give up now. No matter what, I needed to fight for my marriage without another person coming into the picture. Second, I brought him to Ust Halim, and my efforts didn’t stop there. We went to Kelantan to see Abah (Azza’s father) and Alhamdulillah all ‘bad things’ had already diminished Ust said, something happened to us & eventually will destroy the marriage if we’re not strong enough for each other. In this case, I make Wirid Sakran a daily routine & keep motivating myself to stay strong & believe Allah will give us the very best. He’ll turn us back to what we used to be. That time, I was physically & mentally in pain. Losing appetite, weight, but trying to show another persona of ‘nothing happens’ at the office & social media. Doing live streams like how I used to. This will take time to heal. But if we’re strong for each other, we’ll win this battle. Our hearts are Allah’s. He can give you ‘love’ and take it back anytime. Thank you to whoever is involved (you know who you are) for supporting me along this journey. I wouldnt have done this far without you. Friends, in-laws, staff, you guys are my strength.
Menurut perkongsian Aisyah di TikTok, ujian kali ini merupakan cabaran yang paling berat dia dan suami hadapi sepanjang enam tahun perkahwinan.
“Aisyah rasa sepanjang enam tahun kahwin, inilah yang paling mencabar. Mental dan fizikal penat, mencabar iman dan kesetiaan apatah lagi dalam kesihatan tubuh badan yang sangat terhad.”
Katanya lagi, dia amat menjaga jarak dan jurang antara lelaki lain kerana baginya, itu merupakan penghormatan bagi suaminya yang berhak mendapat sepenuh kasih sayang darinya.
“Saya benar-benar menjaga jarak dan juga jurang dengan lelaki. Bagi saya, suami saya berhak mendapat 100% kasih sayang, cinta, layanan baik dan perhatian saya.”
“Bila Aisyah tanya pada ustaz, ada yang kata nampak sesuatu pada Alif dan ada niat seseorang untuk merosakkan rumah tangga. Wallahu a’lam.”
